Doodling to Remember

Doodle

Here at the Hill Hangout, we’ve already covered why we memorize scripture. It’s life to us. We have also covered the technique we use in our homeschool to commit God’s word to heart. We have used this method for several years, and it is a tried and true way to get scripture into your head and into your heart. However, we occasionally like to make scripture memory a little more FUN. My children are little Picassos who remember things faster and more accurately if they can incorporate a little artwork into their lessons.

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We pull out our markers and whatever verse we’re working on memorizing.

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And then we doodle to our heart’s content. We use lots of colors, various media, colored paper, scissors, glue – whatever we need to make the verses stick.

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I have to help LIttle Bit write her verse and then read it to her, but she gets into the artwork just like her big sister.

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“I have hidden Your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.” (Psalm 119:11)

The Family Dinner Table

It’s no secret that I love to cook. One reason is because my family loves to EAT. We just really, really love food. We love to try new dishes and we love to comfort ourselves with old favorites. But, I think one of the reasons we love the food culture so much is because food is a common bond that ties us all together. It’s the togetherness that we’re really after. That common thread that connects us to each other. The sense of community and belonging when we gather around the family dinner table with our favorite people to laugh, share, dream, explore, and remember.

You know, it’s the people you’re with who matter most. Not the food. Not the space. Not the topic of conversation. You can have intimate conversation while eating a peanut butter sandwich on a paper plate from the tailgate of your car. However, as the tender of our homes, it is nice to put a little effort into creating a space where our families feel at home, relaxed, and free to share. I want my home to be a place where people feel at peace, and so I try to make my home have that vibe. I shared with you all the place where my family eats most of our breakfasts and lunches – at the bar in our kitchen.

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(Let’s all pretend that you can’t see dirty dishes in the sink and a floor that needs to be swept, mkay?)

This space has worked so well for us, as we spend LOTS of time in the kitchen. The girls can sit at the bar and do schoolwork, eat, talk with me while I cook, etc. However, the adjacent space, where we eat most of our night meals, is not quite as homey as I’d like it to be. I love the stripes that we painted several months ago, but they bring a busy-ness to the room that no longer works with all the busy-ness on the shelves and the busy-ness of artwork. It’s too busy. It’s just all TOO BUSY!!!

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Anyhoo, this has sent me on a bender to find dining room inspiration. I want a space that doesn’t feel so chaotic so that my family can relax and be at peace while we eat. I thought you might like to see some of the beautiful rooms I found.

I ADORE the Spanish colonial style, and this space is perfect for gathering the family together! The chairs look comfy – encouraging people to linger and converse.

I’m not usually one to throw a contemporary space on you, but I think this room fits the bill perfectly. I can easily imagine having a few friends over for dinner and hanging out half the night in this space. It’s quite simplistic, but it just WORKS really well.

I’m coveting the light and brightness of this cottage space. I’m sure I could get lost in the view that is seen through those big windows. It’s relaxed and homey, but not too much so. There are still some formal elements like the chandelier and the artwork to give it some structure.

This home sits on a lake, so you know it’s always full of family and friends, fun and laughter. This dining room is perfect for entertaining a crowd. Love the size of the table.

When your artwork is done by the Master Creator, there is no need to add anything to the space. The simplicity of this room allows you to fully enjoy the view without interruption.

I happen to love the blues in this dining room. If blue isn’t your color, you have the freedom to choose your own color palate. But the thing I love about this room is the boldness the homeowners displayed in making it thier own. It definitely makes a statement.

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Even with only a small space, this homeowner created a tidy, cozy dining space with only the basics: table and chairs. The choice of big artwork, natural shades, and plush rug make the space look complete.

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Our Miracle Treatment for Eczema

My little Pitter Pat has suffered with eczema since she was a baby. And listen, folks, I don’t use the term “suffer” lightly. It has been the biggest source of physical pain and misery she has had in her five years. Her case is especially bad in the summer, though it can flare up in any season. Though the dry air in winter does make it flare, she also has a HUGE reaction to the sunscreen, bug spray, and pool water of summer. Even the sand and salt water of the beach bring on tears of pain, itching, and burning. We have had our fair share of screaming and inconsolability over her eczema, and until now, we haven’t had much of anything with which to treat it. Lotion is okay, but any kind of fragrance only makes it worse. Hydrocortisone clears it up for the moment, but it thins the skin, only making it easier to break out the next time. We’ve tried castor oil, baby oil, Vasoline, Aquaphor, and even Aveeno’s Eczema Therapy cream. They each work in varying degrees to provide a little comfort, but nothing works log-term. As you might imagine, I have done hours of research on the internet, talking to our pediatrician, taking to other parents, and tried each of the many ideas I have gotten from them. Still no real solution.

Until the other day.

I came across the archives of an old chat board for skin issues. It was a LONG archives, but I was desperate after yet another round of tears over burning legs. One entry caught my attention because it was something I’d never tried before.

Apple Cider Vinegar for Eczema

Apple Cider Vinegar for Eczema

The commenter was singing the praises of diluted apple cider vinegar for her child’s eczema. Her story sounded familiar to us, as she’d been through the same battles we have, but she vowed that apple cider vinegar not only treated her child’s eczema, but actually CURED it. Now, I can’t say yet whether it will cure eczema completely, but after trying it, I am also singing the praises of this treatment.

Here’s the deal: Dilute about 1/4 cup apple cider vinegar with about 3 cups of water. Saturate a cotton ball with the mixture, and apply it to the affected areas. If it is a fresh spot, it’s going to BURN LIKE CRAZY, so be ready to blow on it. However, patches that are a few days old shouldn’t be so bad. Apply it in the morning and again at night. Sure, you’ll smell like vinegar for a while (not too badly), but if you’ve ever dealt with eczema, you won’t care.

Please understand that I am not a medical professional, and this little blog certainly does not give out medical advise. However, I am a mom that has had a miserable child, and I would LOVE to pass on what what worked for us to any other mom out there who has lived with the effects of eczema in their kiddos. If you’ve dealt with this problem and my remedy works for you, I sure would love to hear about it. Just leave a comment or shoot me an email to let me know.

Want to see my treatment for the stomach virus? Check it out here.

Disney World!!

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Santa brought us a great big surprise this year–a trip to Disney World! Needless to say, the girls were quite excited, and their parents were equally as much so. On New Year’s Eve we set out on a nine hour drive to Orlando. The trip went remarkably well, as both girls entertained themselves and each other.

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About three hours into the trip, we stopped in Dothan, where I grew up, and had lunch with a high school friend and her two daughters. (Hi Tamara, Lydia, and Evelyn!) Hunt’s Seafood was just as good as I remembered, and the company was even better than the food. It was a fun break before getting back on the road to finish the remainder of our driving.

We got to Orlando just in time to spend New Year’s Eve with another high school friend and her two boys. (Hi Joy, Stig, Taylor, and Toby!) Joy has the gift of hospitality like none other, so she had a fabulous spread of appetizers, delicious chocolate fondue, and enough fireworks to light up Orlando. I was so thankful to be able to spend a little time with both of my friends and let our families get better acquainted. What a treasure to have twenty-five-year friends!

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We spent three days in the parks, two at Magic Kingdom and one park hopping to Animal Kingdom, Epcot, and Hollywood Studios. I wouldn’t necessarily recommend trying to do three parks in one day, but we really wanted to hit Hollywood Studios at the end of the day to see the Osborne Family Christmas Lights. If you are ever at Disney in December, don’t miss it. There are over 5,000,000 lights, and we got some great family photos there. It’s very magical.

Of course, my girls’ favorite part of the trip was meeting the characters, but the rides were also a big hit. My girls are 11 and 5, so they are just beginning to ride some of the bigger rides. I was particularly surprised when they both rode and LOVED Big Thunder Mountain Railroad. Who knew I had two little daredevils on my hands?

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I’m happy to report that the teacups are just as fast and fun as ever!

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One thing that has definitely improved since the last time I was at Disney is the food. We ate breakfast at the hotel and packed our lunches most days, but the snacks we purchased during our time at Disney were some of the best food we’ve ever eaten on a vacation. One particular favorite was Boardwalk Bakery at the Boardwalk.

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We also enjoyed one of the best meals we’ve ever eaten at Wolfgang Puck’s restaurant at Downtown Disney. Jonathan had the bacon wrapped meatloaf topped with a port wine sauce, and served on a bed of mashed potatoes. I chose the pumpkin ravioli, filled with butternut squash and mascarpone cheese, topped with browned butter, candied pecans, arugula, and shaved fresh parmesan. Even the girls’ kids’ meals were fantastic. It’s definitely a must-do next time we go to Disney, as is our friend Joy’s husband’s restaurant The Flying Fish. We didn’t get to try it this trip, but it is definitely on our list for next time.

I can’t tell you what a blessing it was for our family ‘o four to hang out together for five days in the happiest place on earth. We stay so busy with work, homeschooling, the kids’ activities, and church that we sometimes seem like ships passing in the night. This trip was a great reminder that we need to infuse a little more fun into our regular schedule. I mean, I really do like these people I get to hang out with everyday.

Have you been do Disney lately? What was your favorite part?

Family Time

We are taking a little family time this week. I’ll be back next week ready to begin the blogging year. Unless, of course, we decide to just live here…

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Cornbread Dressing

Dressing

I think people in other parts of the country refer to this dish as “Stuffing,” but in the south it’s known as dressing. Cornbread dressing is a mainstay at holiday dinners because it’s the perfect match to chicken, ham, or our family’s favorite, Cajun Fried Turkey. Just like cornbread, there are lots of ways one can prepare dressing. Please feel free to add apples, cranberries, pecans, sage, or oysters if you like, but the Hill family likes this basic, savory version. You’ll need:

1 pan cornbread
1 onion, diced
3 stalks celery, diced
3 green onions, diced
7 cups chicken broth
5 eggs, beaten
1/2 stick butter
1 tablespoon dried parsley
1/2 teaspoon garlic powder
1/2 teaspoon ground thyme
1 teaspoon celery salt

Step one is to make a pan of cornbread. You can use your favorite recipe or use our Classic Southern Cornbread recipe found here.

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Let your cornbread cool fully. I usually cut mine into chunks so it will cool faster and stick it into the fridge for a couple of hours. (I won’t tell anybody if you steal a bite of the crunchy edges as you pull it apart.)

Cooling

While your cornbread is cooling begin sautéing your onions and celery in the 1/2 stick of butter.

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When they are translucent, crumble the cooled cornbread into the vegetables. I try to crumble pretty well using the food processor, but you can certainly do it by hand. Add the beaten eggs and the seasonings. Add in the chicken broth. Begin with about four cups of broth and slowly add in the remaining as you mix the dressing.

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Spray a 9X13 baking dish with cooking spray, and pour in your dressing. I usually have enough to do a small baking dish as well. It’s hard to make a little bit of dressing. You either make a lot or don’t make it at all.

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Bake it on 350 degrees for about 35-40 minutes.

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Cornbread Dressing from TheHillHangout.com

Classic Southern Cornbread

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Cornbread is more than just a bread to accompany a meal. The ideas and memories associated with a good pan of cornbread tell a story about family life in the south. Its history is rich. Below the Mason-Dixon Line, cornbread is a way of life. There are as many cornbread recipes as there are cornbread cooks. Every southern cook has her own way of making cornbread, and each family has its own distinctive flavor to enjoy.

The starting point to the perfect pan of cornbread is the cast iron skillet. Sure, you can make cornbread in a metal or glass baking dish, but if you want the full cornbread experience, you definitely need to make it in a cast iron skillet. And if you can find one that belonged to your grandmother, it will probably taste even better.

Start by melting a stick of butter in the skillet in the oven on 450 degrees.

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While you are waiting on the butter to melt, mix together the rest of your ingredients in a bowl. You’ll need:

3 cups self-rising corn meal
3 eggs
2 1/2 cups buttermilk
1/2 cup oil
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon black pepper

When butter is sizzling and completely melted, you’re ready to remove the pan from the oven. Carefully pour the cornbread mix into the sizzling hot pan, being ever so careful not to splash yourself with hot butter.

Pour

Put it back into the oven for about 20-25 minutes or until golden, crunchy brown on top.

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Transfer onto a plate and slice into wedges. Cornbread is the accompaniment of choice to any southern meal. Fried chicken – check. Roast and potatoes – yes, ma’am. A big pot of vegetable beef soup – absolutely. As long as it’s made with love and shared with the people who you care about most, cornbread will make any meal perfect!

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Moms: 4 Things You Alone Can Offer Your Daughter

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I was looking through an old notepad tonight, and I came across some notes that I meant to share with you all back in the fall. As you might remember, I attended Lifeway’s dotMom conference, and it was incredible. (They are doing two events this year, one in Dallas and one in Chattanooga.) There were lots of CHristian speakers who all talked about being a good mom and what makes a good mom and what good moms do and don’t do. But there was one in particular who gave such insight that I wrote pages of notes. Her name is Sissy Goff, and she is an author, speaker, and counselor of teenage girls at a place called Daystar Counseling Ministries in Nashville. She specializes in private counseling for young girls, leading girls’ counseling/support groups, and teaching parenting classes. She gave some of the most practical and eye-opening information that we heard that weekend, and I wanted to pass it along to those of you who might be raising daughters. The talk centered around the importance of the mother/daughter relationship. Although it can be tricky at times, there are several things that moms uniquely can bring to their daughters’ lives. (I hope I am not doing any disservice to Sissy’s great talk by my recap. It’s been a while since I heard it and hope to recall it accurately.) Here they are:

1. She needs your support. Every stage of her life is different, but in every stage she needs your support. You are her safety net for exploring the world. She needs to know that after exploring a little, she can come back to the safety of Mom to digest it all. Your relationship with her is her first view of herself. (Gulp!) If you are constantly telling her what she needs to change or do better, she will learn that she always needs to change and do better. If you value her quirks and uniqueness, she will have the confidence to be herself. A girl’s favorite thing for Mom to do is listen. Her least favorite thing for you to do is fix it. She needs you to help her through the process of developing her own voice and solving her own problems in her own way.

2. She needs you to help her differentiate from you. When your daughter gets to the tween years, she begins to understand that she is her own person. You and she aren’t the same person, even though she feels more like an extension of you than any other person. She needs to know that you are okay with her doing things her own way and making choices that you would not necessarily make. When she needs to differentiate from you, it can be a difficult process. When she wants to grow up, she is like a pendulum who has to push off of you to swing out into the world. She may become more silent and distant from you than ever before. When she does it, don’t blame yourself. It is part of God’s design in growing her into the person He created her to be. Again, she needs to know that you’re okay with it and that you are giving her the space to become herself. If you have been okay with the swing out (trusting her to use sound judgement and not being critical of her choices), then she will eventually swing back to you. You will enjoy a wonderful friendship with her later on if you handle this tricky phase with grace. Where can you see that God is already at work in her life? Affirm that to her.

3. She needs you to enjoy her. Girls who feel delighted in feel delightful. (Dads can also play a HUGE role in helping girls feel delighted in!!!) She needs you to enjoy being with her. She needs you to enjoy her interests. She needs you to enjoy the things that bring her joy. You need a “thing” with each of your daughters, where you aren’t teaching or instructing. (Do you hear that, homeschooling mama?) These times teach her to value herself.

4. She needs you to be her inspiration. Girls bounce back and forth between two questions: Am I enough? and Am I too much? Help her answer that question by modeling and verbalizing the answers for her in your own life. She needs to know that she is valuable to you and to God and that she is valuable to the world God created her for. Remind her that she has a calling from Him and that He has important work for her to do. Teach her that she is always worth the effort that she requires. The biggest way she will learn these important views of herself, is to see that you believe them about yourself.

Moms, help your daughters figure out where God is working in their lives and using them in His kingdom and come alongside Him to support and encourage them.

Turkey Creek Nature Preserve

I don’t know about your area, but I can’t say that we’ve had the most colorful leaf-changing season in Birmingham this year. There are pockets of gold, sure, but not a huge display of color as in years past. It’s a shame because we’ve been studying leaves in botany and have been waiting anxiously to have some hands-on activities and discussions. So today I wanted to take the littles somewhere to see if we could improve on our autumnal experience. Somewhere a little more rustic than our back yard.

Turkey Creek Nature Preserve is about 25 miles away, so we decided today would be a good day to check it out. We discovered a magical oasis, privately tucked away in the forests of Pinson. The land was secured by the state of Alabama several years ago as part of the Forever Wild initiative.

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Isn’t is lovely? We played in the water, climbed on the rocks, and hiked the trails. We were able to photograph lots of species of leaves for our leaf study notebook. We were quite impressed by this well-kept secret.

I feel like even though I’ve lived in Birmingham for years, there is still more waiting to be discovered. Do you have hide-aways like this in your area?

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