My Mississippi Day

Last week, a dear, treasured friend of mine lost her daddy, who had been sick a very long time. This gave me occasion to up and run to Mississippi for a couple of days to attend his visitation and funeral. Y’all, it was absolutely the sweetest time with this dear family. It was a time of rejoicing and celebrating his life, along with a few tears of sadness. His sweet girls both participated in the service, which was a joy to see. Mr. Jackson’s oldest daughter, Amy, sang the most angelic version of There Is A Savior  you would ever want to hear. And how special that she was able to sing it for her daddy. My friend and his youngest daughter, Carol Anne, shared the sweetest, funniest, most precious stories about her daddy. He was in the Army and fought in one of the wars, so his casket was draped with an American flag. A bugler played Taps and Mrs. Jackson was presented with the flag, which is one of the most moving acts our country provides for our soldiers. I went with my friends Melinda and Enley, both of whom were in our Bible study when Carol Anne was our beloved teacher. We all laughed and cried and thought it was just the most precious celebration of life we have ever been a part of.
Because I was in Mississippi for a couple of days, I got to spend time with my dear friends and family. I met a group of girlfriends for birthday breakfast for my friend Enley. Her girlfriends all chipped in and bought her the most gorgeous Coach purse. She was super-dee-duper delighted. Can you blame her? That thing was like butter. She better not put it down and turn her head in my presence or it might get snatched!
While we were eating breakfast and chatting (more chatting than eating!!), guess who I met?!? After following her blog and reading her fabulous magazine 393 Magazine for forever, I finally got to meet Joy! And she’s just as sweet and darling in person as she seems!
After the morning events, we went on a little field trip. Jonathan’s grandfather was raised on a farm. Growing his own food is something he has done his entire life. Even though his main line of work was owning and operating a propane gas business for 50+ years, he has almost always had a garden on the side. He believes, and I totally agree, that the vegetables and fruits he grows taste better than what can be purchased in the grocery. Over the years, we have been the grateful recipients of the fruit of Papaw’s labors. My freezer is almost always stocked with Papaw’s tomatoes, peas, squash, okra, and corn. We usually get enough each summer to carry us through the winter months, still being able to enjoy good food.
I said on facebook the other day that these days, we call this process organic gardening and pay a premium for it. But Papaw scoffs at that because he’s just growing the same food the same way he has for 89 years. And it’s true! Well, except for that 89 years part – Papaw is actually 90! Gardening is one of the things that has kept him active for all these years, and as a result, he is able to keep up with men half his age.
I took Mary Anneliese by Papaw’s garden while we were in Mississippi so that she could pick a few vegetables herself. Of course, she loved seeing Papaw “in his element”, and I loved taking pictures of the two of them together.
One of our last stops was to see our friends the Monsours. They welcomed baby Stelynn two weeks ago, and I had to get my hands on her. Mary Anneliese and Hays have been friends longer than either of them can remember. They were so glad to see each other, and it was cute to see Hays show off his baby sister.
I love it when a spontaneous trip turns into such a fantastic day! It was such fun to be back in our old hangouts with our dear friends-for-life.

Happy Independence Day

We started our Independence Day celebration a little early this year by taking the family to Pops in the Park in Vestavia. It’s one of our most favorite celebrations of the year. This year we met up with friends for a picnic, a patriotic concert by our church’s orchestra, fun on inflatable jumpers, and a movie night in the park. The movie was Diary of a Wimpy Kid, which Mary Anneliese deemed “not so good because they were mean to each other.” My tender-hearted girl did, however, have a fabulous time playing with her friends.
Look! It’s a picture of me! we almost never have photographic proof that I am in attendance at any event because I am always the photographer. My friend Nancy snapped this picture of Patterson and me so that we could show that I do, indeed, participate in my children’s lives.
I love this look on my girls. This look that says they’ve played so hard their face is red and their hair is falling down. That’s the sign of having a really good time!
 CC and Pop are on their way to our house for the weekend. They should be here in a couple of hours. The girls are ecstatic, and so are their parents. Hope you all have big, fun plans to celebrate our freedom this weekend!
“If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land.”
2 Chronicles 7:14

More Before and After

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I have been exploring the software that came with my new camera. Yea! I figured out how do sepia tones and black and white. I love photo editing. It a whole other dimension of creativity that I have not known about before!
I am linking today with Darcy’s Sweet Shot Tuesday at Life with My 3 Boybarians. If you are visiting for Sweet Shot Tuesday, please feel free to look around!

Book #21 The Heart Mender

It’s no secret that I love Andy Andrews’ writing. When I was contacted by a rep from Thomas Nelson to read and write a blog review about his newest book, I jumped at the chance. This, my friends, is one of his best. It’s called The Heart Mender, and it’s all about forgiveness and second chances.

As with all of Andy Andrews’ stories, it is hard to tell where fact leaves off and fiction begins. The Heart Mender is set in the time of World War II, and is, like so many of Andrews’ books, set in the Baldwin County, Alabama, area. The story involves a German submariner who floats ashore in Baldwin County, after being shot and presumed dead by his Nazi commander. He is found on the beach by Helen, a waitress in a local diner who is still reeling from the death of her young husband in the war. If ever two people have a reason to hate each other, it is these two.

The story that unfolds is full of suspense, friendship, forgiveness. It is the story of moving forward, even when you have a good reason to stay angry. I love the way Andrews explains this concept: “If you forgive somebody for something he did to you, that means you choose to never allow that event to determine how you feel or how you act or how you treat that person. You may remember the wrong, but by choosing to forgive, you have disarmed it. Then it can no longer determine what you think, what you say, or what you do.” It’s a powerful lesson that could revolutionize the world, if only we would allow it to.

Summer Activities: Picking Blueberries

The girls and I took a little road trip yesterday to Harpersville, Alabama, home of Morgan Creek Vineyards. We were looking for a place to pick blueberries. What we found in Harpersville was an incredibly beautiful well-kept secret! As we pulled up, I felt like we were entering another world, and it was enchanted. 
We stopped for a few pictures before we started picking. It was so hot that we knew better than to do our photo-op afterward. Nobody enjoys pictures of cranky, whiny, sweaty, red-faced children. Or cranky, sweaty, red-faced mamas.
Their bushes were laden with blueberries, some not quite ready and some plump, sweet and ready to be eaten. They don’t use any pesticides, so the lady said they were safe to eat right from the bushes and that we could eat as many as we wanted.
Blueberry picking was a terrific activity for my little Pitter Patter. There were plenty of berries within her reach, and she was proud to have something she could do just as well as the big girls. She said, “Mommy, dis is so much fun!”
The farm has a shady resting spot, complete with a cooler of ice water and a nice big swing. It seems like they have thought through every detail. It was a much needed respite from the scorching sun.
Morgan Creek offers all kinds of fun activities, and they are very family-friendly. They are a working winery, growing their own grapes, blueberries, and muscadines. They offer wine-tastings with several different “Southern-style” wines. They do weddings and rehearsal dinners. In May, they did an art show called Art In The Vineyards featuring Alabama artists. They do outdoor summer concerts, where you can bring a picnic and enjoy the music on their vast green lawn. Their July 4th concert (held on July 3rd) features live music and a fireworks show. In September, they have their biggest yearly event called Grapestomp. They stomp grapes the old-fashioned way. They even have a “Lucy-look-alike” contest. How hilarious is that!?! (Do you remember the episode of I Love Lucy where Lucy and Ethel stomp grapes?) The girls and I can’t wait to take Jonathan back to this lovely little find.

Wandering Wednesday

Welcome to Wandering Wednesday, the post where thoughts aren’t required to be organized, important or linked together in any way. We could call it “Random Wednesday”, “Scattered Wednesday”, or even “Who-in-the-world-cares Wednesday.”  But we won’t. It’s my blog and I’ll call it whatever I want.

1. My grandmother is doing a little better everyday. Her voice is becoming stronger. She understands what we say. She knows who people are. She even knows what she wants to say but can’t make the words come out. Her swallowing ability, however, has not returned, and that’s a big problem. She will go to a rehab hospital at some point, with the goal of eventually moving her in with my parents or my aunt. Thanks to those of you who have asked about her.

2. I am so pathetic at making decorating decisions! I had a spurt of creativity a while back, where I chose fabrics and got you all to vote on them. Remember that? By the time I got around to ordering fabrics, they were sold out of everything I had chosen. I was at a loss. However, I went this week to Seibels, one of my favorite local stores, and they had a beautiful bedding set-up that I adored. I could not afford to purchase everything from them, as their things can be a bit pricey for my budget. I did use the inspiration, however, to put together another look, with fabrics that were all on sale for DIRT CHEAP! Oh, how I hope it turns out like I see it in my head. That’s where the disconnect usually occurs. I get a vision in my head, but seem to have trouble making it come to life. I’ll give you an update when I make some progress.

3. I tried the new Dannon Greek yogurt today. Somebody had recommended it, and since we eat a lot of yogurt, I thought “why not?” It was really good. It’s thicker, heavier, and more filling than regular yogurt. It has a lot of protein and only 40 more calories than the yogurt I usually buy. I tried the honey flavor, but it comes in about five or six flavor choices.

4. Mary Anneliese has been in day camp all week from 9:00 until 3:30. I have missed her so much!! I’m feeling really good about my choice to homeschool again next year. I like having her around!

5. This is the hottest summer we have had in years, don’t you think? I’m melting daily, and I can’t get the energy to get things done. At least, not all the things I want to do.

6. The girls and I are going to pick blueberries at a blueberry farm tomorrow. I should have plenty to make lemon/blueberry jam in the near future.

7. I pulled out my sewing machine and a huge stack of fabric that I got for $4/yard at the Hannah Kate fabric sale last year. I need to get busy making some things for them. But… see #5.

That is all.

Happy Wednesday!

Sweet Shot Tuesday

As I continue learning about the editing software that came with my new camera, I like the way this turned out. The ice cream truck is the very essence of a childhood summer. I like the way this one turned out.
I’m linking today to Sweet Shot Tuesday at Life with My 3 Boybarians. If you are visiting from Sweet Shot Tuesday, I invite you to look around. Thanks for visiting!

Summer Activities: The Zoo

We are blessed with a fantastic zoo in our town. My girls have really just
 now begun to show interest in animals, so it has been a fun adventure for us this summer.
We purchased a family season pass, which lasts for one year, because it allows us to go as often as we’d like. It pays for itself in two visits, so it’s a great value. It also gives us discounts on the homeschool science lessons and art lessons that the zoo offers.
In addition to our family pass, we purchased the guest pass for an extra $20, which allows us to bring one friend free of charge each time we go. Things are always better when shared with a friend, so we have gotten our money’s worth out of the guest pass. Our zoo has a great playground that is built to loosely resemble a gorilla habitat. My monkeys love to climb the rocks and slide down the rock slide. They have this rope-enclosed swinging bridge that even my little one can handle.
Yesterday our friend let us know about the fossil digging spot. We had never seen it before. The girls took a break from the walking to dig in the sand for fossils. 
Patterson was fascinate by the river otters.
Our zoo has a fun splash pad for the kiddos to cool off. We always take our swimsuits and jump in as soon as we get hot. It was closed for maintenance yesterday, so we had to make our own water fun at home.
Check out those thighs!

Harvest

“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Galatians 6:9
“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. But later on, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.”
Hebrews 12:11

Viruses and Swimming and the Really Important Stuff

Well, this is a first. I am actually typing this entry, the entire thing, on my phone. Last night as I was doing some writing, my computer started acting cray-zee. About twenty error boxes popped up, and before I could get them closed there were forty more. I suspected immediately that I had been infected with a virus. I’m techno-savvy like that. After fiddling with it and running my antivirus software several times, I gave up and watched reruns of Will and Grace. This morning Jonathan woke me to ask if something weird was going on with the computer. I opened one eye long enough to convey a “yes”, because it was approximately 6:00 am, and who in their right mind is lucid at that hour? He took it in to the office and made a call to their computer genius William, who promptly confirmed my original diagnosis – a virus. In fact, many viruses. That around-the-block story all goes to say that if I have a few spelling or grammatical errors, don’t judge me. I’ve never typed an entire blog post using only my thumbs. It’s not as easy as it looks.

If I knew how to upload pictures into this post, which I clearly do not, I could show you photographic proof that we have indeed been in the water for the better part of this week. My laundry room is full of wet swimsuits hanging to dry. It is H-O-T this summer in Alabama, folks. We have survived only because of the splashpad and FWP (friends with pools). Today we hung out with our friends the Bostons at their home, and yesterday I took the girls to the splashpad, where I saw no less than eight pregnant women. Womenwho were in factso pregnant I was afraid we might see some birthing action right there in Gardendale. I have never felt so sorry for anyone in my entire life! Of course, they all seemed to be cool as a cucumber, while my non-pregnant self melted into a puddle on the sidewalk after ten minutes. But the littles had a ball, and that’s all that matters.

On a more solemn note, while we were swimming today, Jonathan called to tell me that my sweet little grandmother had a stroke this morning. She is 88-ish and has had a small stroke once before. From early indications, this one seems to be more severe. I am waiting to hear more on her condition from my dad once he arrives at the hospital. Will you add her to your prayer list today? She is my only living grandparent, so I sort of need her to hang around a little while longer! Thanks so much!